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So You’re Poor? Tough Luck Then!

Hello there, fellow romantics. I have something interesting for you to read today. Why? Because this topic is universal and very real– it’s all about being broke. Or, to sugarcoat it ever so lightly– this post is about keeping love alive despite being “financially challenged.”

Hustling? Not this time

You know how it is when you’re broke. You also know how women are usually difficult to please. Despite this, there are still ways to capture a woman’s heart, which even we who are broke can use. If you are a financially challenged guy wondering  how to meet women and make them like you quickly, follow these simple tips:

Don’t worry too much, to most women, money is not everything!  If you think that the easiest way to please a woman is to flaunt your wealth, then you are badly mistaken.  Although it helps to have a lot of money, your riches are just tiny dots in a woman’s universe. Women are generally more attracted to certain desirable traits such as confidence, kindness, sincerity, and loyalty. The old song that says “can’t buy me love” conveys this truth perfectly.

Be creative to avoid the expensive!   If you’re thinking of having dinner together, why not invite her for a dinner you have cooked for her at home?  She is sure to appreciate that more than dinner expensive restaurant, because it involves personal effort.  Pull out all the stops in decorating the dinner table – use your best table cloths, silverware and make sure there are candles and a chilled bottle of wine.  That should set you back just a fifth of what it would cost at a restaurant!

Find ways to show how thoughtful you are!   There is nothing more thoughtful than calling her in the morning and greeting her to let her know that you’ve missed her – terribly in fact. Be the consummate gentleman when with her; open doors, pull out seats and be very attentive to her every need.

Always have a plan B! To avoid disappointing your date, you need to be prepared with alternatives to your original plan to ensure the day is not wasted if something suddenly changes.  If you’re going to a movie, prepare a backup activity should there be a hitch; for example you can watch movies at home or play board and card games.

Flowers and chocolates need not break the bank.   Sure, ladies like both flowers and chocolates, but these don’t have to cost you an arm and a leg.  She’ll appreciate flowers you personally picked from the garden as much, if not more, than a store bought bouquet.  And you need not give her a big box of chocolates to make her happy.  Giving her just a bar of chocolate (just make sure it is not of the cheap variety) will give her as much joy – remember that it is the thought that counts!

Write (don’t print) love letters!  Technology has almost erased the need for manual, sometimes called cursive, writing.  But a handwritten love letter has more impact to a girl than the most expensive greeting card because they appreciate the personal effort involved.

Keeping your relationship alive does not always require a lot of money; in most cases, all it needs is loads of effort on your part to make it work!

Hope you find this post helpful.  For comments, suggestions, and questions you may contact me at enrique@enriquequinterodesign.com or at phone number 347 622 8310.

Posted on 5th April 2013 in Uncategorized  •  Comments are off for this post