Learning how to make a woman like you quickly might seem like a daunting task, but it isn’t impossible. In fact, no matter how many times you have been rejected in the past, there is still hope for you in situations like these. There are actually many different ways to significantly reduce your chances of being rejected by a woman and guarantee that she falls madly in love with you instead. Read on.
I wrote this while I was on a long train to Moscow. So bear it with me while I ramble on about my favorite topic: seduction.
How To Get A Woman To Like You Quickly
Be her prince charming.
I was really lonely until I found my girlfriend. Love you, Selena Chan!
Every woman in the world dreams of being swept off of their feet by their very own prince charming. No matter what your past experiences might have taught you and no matter what women might say to you, they always hope to find their dream man in every man that walks towards them. As such, it really won’t be any different the minute they see you approaching.
Whether you feel like prince charming or not, you can take full advantage of this female fantasy by being a real gentleman around women at all times. Be brave and charming whenever the situation calls for it, for example, and always walk around with an air of confidence surrounding you. Confidence happens to be one of the most sought-after traits that women look for in men, so you will definitely end up in the right direction if you display a confident aura around them. Even if you don’t feel confident around, acting like you do can convince women otherwise. Try it!
Be her confidant.
If you speak a woman’s language, you will succeed in your endeavors. It is as simple as that. In other words, you have to make sure you say exactly what a woman wants to hear when she wants to hear it.If she needs assurance that she is intelligent and pretty, for instance, give her that assurance while looking deeply into her eyes.
Face it: women won’t be interested in you unless you promise to be by their side, no matter what happens. So, if you want to lock her in, the best way to do this would be to assure her that she is loved and that you are committed to making her feel safe whenever she needs you. The minute she feels like you might flake out on her, she will drop you like a hot potato. Don’t let that happen. You can be good at dating just by mastering the techniques that you can find online (for example, the SonicSeduction website) – always improve yourself!
So, there you have it! You now know exactly how to make a woman like you quickly. The only thing left for you to do now is to practice these tips on as many different women as possible. Remember: practice makes perfect!
You know why girls choose the douchebags and the players? Yes, exactly. They’re more confident. Their sex appeal comes from that security they have in themselves; they channel their own self confidence to their dates and in turn, the girl feels just as confident with him.
This is where most nice guys fail. They fail to impress their dates the first time because they have been too fidgety, they could not look in her eyes, and they are almost always distracted. The first date blues always get them and their true personality – the nice, warm, loving, admirable traits – are overshadowed by their lack of self confidence. They instead come out as unserious, boring, maybe even rude at some point.
Confidence is the sexiest thing in anyone – men and women alike.
Confidence is the sexiest thing.
Of course it takes a lot of brains, too, to recognize the difference between confident and cocky.
If you’re the type that runs out of things to say or gets the nerves when on a date or you just need the extra kick in the gut for your next date, here are some ways to fake your confidence:
Wear something nice but comfortable. When looking for clothes to wear on a date, always go for something that makes you feel handsome. Wearing something too fancy that makes you feel anything other than happy will likely affect your confidence. You’ll be too distracted by what you’re wearing – straightening your clothes, having the urge to check and recheck yourself in the mirror, etc.
Do not slouch. Slouching makes your date feel unimportant. It makes her feel like you’re disinterested in talking with her, or you’re not taking her seriously. Sit up straight, cross your legs if you need to but keep a straight back. You’ll get used to it. If you need more help in correcting a slouch, read this Health Guidance article.
Hold your drink with one hand.
Hold a drink on one hand, preferably your left. It keeps your hand busy, gives you something to ‘play with’ so you keep yourself from tapping on the table or clasped real tightly all of which are giveaway for nervousness.
Give yourself a mental pep talk before your date comes in. Everything you’re scared of is just in your brain. This date is not a matter of life or death and if this foils, then head on over to the next. Your date is probably as scared as you. And there’s nothing wrong with you. Tell yourself random stuff that will keep you happy and will unnerve you.
Come early. Being late will make you extra nervous, not to mention earn you a turnoff point, especially if you’re meeting the girl at your date location. It will give you time to relax and take in the atmosphere of the place, this will make you less nervous.
This is when people say ‘fake it until you make it’ applies quite well. After a few more dates with different women, and socializing with more people, you’ll likely be used to it and it becomes part of your personality. Bottomline is, attracting women is not hard if you follow this. And always remember to have fun!
Nowadays, there is no longer any need for men to go through the embarrassment and pain that come with hanging out at bars and night clubs with hopes of picking up women. If you hate buying expensive drinks for women who don’t actually guarantee anything or if you hate dancing, then you will love what online seduction has to offer.
But what if, you’ve had too much of face-to-face introductions and what nots?
Online dating websites are easy, fast and effective ways for you to get dates with gorgeous women without even having to leave the comforts of your own home. What lazy man wouldn’t be interested in this – and what man isn’t lazy?
The only problem that you might have when you delve into the online world is mastering how to communicate with women through instant messages and emails. However, once you learn how to do so, then you can take all of the time that you need to come up with killer things to say to women and eventually build up rapport with them. Here are several tips that can help you succeed with women through the World Wide Web:
1. Be Patient.
Nothing will make you look more creepy and more needy than flooding the woman that you are interested in with a stream of messages before she even gets the chance to reply to you. So, try to be patient and don’t freak out if she fails to reply sometimes, either.
2. Check Your Spelling.
Online dating is one of the very few cases where you actually have to pay attention to the way that you type things online. Although it isn’t a necessity, you will score brownie points if you communicate with women with flawless punctuation, spelling and grammar online at all times.
3. Think Things Through.
Before you send anything to a woman online, make sure you think things through first. Try to sound clever and witty, for example. Also, if you think you are comfortable enough with each other by now, tease her every now and then.If the woman you are hitting on is extremely hot, then you should consider the fact that other men are busting their balls trying to get her attention, too. If you’d like to give yourself an edge, and I am sure you do, here is a blog that is recommended highly by many. By showing her that you are a fun guy, she will be more inclined to replying to your messages faster.
Although it isn’t a necessity, you will score brownie points if you communicate with women with flawless grammar online.
4. Keep Things Short.
Face it: women won’t spend more than 10 minutes reading a message online nor will she wait for you if it takes you that long to reply to her instant message, either. So, keep things short. Online dating is meant to be fun, so use as few words and sentences as possible to keep her interested.
5. Focus on Her.
In general, people love talking about themselves, especially women. So, ask as many questions as possible and keep the focus on her. Contrary to popular belief, there is no need to try and impress a woman on the Internet. Just get to know her better by asking different questions about her interests and you can win her over in no time.
Online dating indeed has become very popular these days, especially with the advent of smartphones and internet connection is seamless. If there’s any advantage in online dating, I think it’s the fact that you can be yourself anonymously. You also get an initial chemistry test without having to spend time together.
To add more icing to the cake, I have friend who have actually found true love through online dating. Sounds sweet? Tell me.
“Mates before dates” can be as simple as going for boys’ night out over a dinner date with your girl. But, it becomes a very complicated, very messy situation when it comes to whether or not it is okay to date your friend’s ex.
Really, what does the bro code say about going out with your buddy’s former fling? When is it okay to date a friend’s ex? Or is it ever okay?
The Big Issue
The biggest issue that comes with dating someone your close friend has dated is the question on loyalty. You cannot stop your mate from suspecting that you have been eyeing his girl even while they were still together. And you can’t really blame him if he wonders if you actually made advances on her behind his back. After all, he will never know.
And this is a fact for both male and female relationships.
We may argue, ‘no one owns anybody and we are free to date and love whoever we damn well please’. But then again, would you seriously say that to someone you call ‘brother from another mother’? In the face?
If yo decide to go for it, you might find these rules handy.
Can you date your friend’s ex? Would you?
The Factors to Consider
If you are thinking about pursuing a girl who’s dated your friend, there might be questions you need to ask yourself and factors you have to consider before making a move.
Time here refers to both how long your friend and his ex were together, and how long ago it was since they’ve broken up. If it was a long, serious relationship – say, something that started since they were in High School, I don’t think that’s something you want to get involved in. But then again, if they have broken up two years ago, then it may be okay.
Why do you want to pursue the girl? Why would the girl want to date you? Are you looking at scoring off in your unspoken competition with your friend? Is she using you as a rebound, and the perfect accessory to her revenge on your friend? Either way, you are going to have a bad time.
Assess yourself and your feelings: is this something you truly want?
3. Their current situation
Bad breakups take a really long time to get over from. If it wasn’t a mutual situation, and your friend was dumped, think again about taking his ex out. He will either (1) think you’re the cause of the breakup and you are a traitor or (2) she was using him the whole time to get you. Boys can be overly dramatic too you know. And besides, you really wouldn’t want to be the poor rebound guy.
But if they both have fully moved on from each other, and they can actually be civil, then maybe you can get your hopes up a teeny bit.
In any situation, timing is everything: when to pursue the girl, when to tell your friend, when to take her to your common social circle – the slightest mistimed move could jeopardize both your friendship with you buddy and your blooming relationship with the lady in question.
The Bottom Line
The most important question, perhaps, that you should ask when thinking about pursuing a buddy’s former romance is this: will it be worth all the trouble and the risk of losing a friend?
Unless you want to be the douchebag and the jerk in your social circle, better ask that question before dialing her number.
Guys, I have news for you: bars aren’t the only places to meet great women! Girls have found some new places to frequent and you might be the last person to know.
Sticking with the usual bars and clubs will leave you with the exact same type of women. And with that, you might be missing on someone better who does not happen to like the neon lights and overflowing margaritas.
Oh, and guys, did I happen to tell you that men with unusual (no, not creepy) interests or those who are into improving themselves constantly are sexy? Yes, they are very attractive. At least, that’s what my female friends tell me. And what’s even more attractive is if that man happens to like the same thing women are into.
While it is wise to learn the right Pickup techniques, it is equally wise to be picking them up at the right places, lest you end up wasting your time with the wrong women.
So here’s a list of hobbies that you can spare some time on and get a chance to meet girls (without looking like a neurotic drunk guy at the end of the night):
1.Join Cooking Classes
Gordon Ramsay’s rise to TV stardom, and all the other cooking shows and contests, the desire to learn how to cook better also rose to a record high. Okay, I don’t have a record but a lot of women have gotten the desire to learn to cook like a pro from watching DC Cupcakes and Masterchef. And thus the rise in enrollees in your local cooking school. This is one place where you’d be literally surrounded by women. And to be among the few home cooking men to join the culinary class, you’ll get special treatment. (Oh, yes, a man who is good with cooking is sexy!)
2. Run for Your Love?
Yes, running has become the ‘in’ fitness thing of today. I don’t know what started the trend but more people are into running. And you know what that means: girls are into it too! It’s cheap, it’s fresh, and hey it’s healthy for you! You don’t even have to be a member of some group! Just make sure you stock up on some heavy duty deo and run early – that’s when all other runners come out.
3. Volunteer for Charity
Girls can hardly resist kind-hearted men. Sparing a few hours of your time doing charity work for problematic children, special children, soup kitchen, animal shelter or whatever strikes your fancy will have you meet equally kind-hearted ladies.
4. Poetry Club
There’s almost always one artist café in every place. If you’re into Shakespeare and a fan of the written art, you’re likely to meet girls with the same artistic penchants in these places. Watch out for open mic nights and poetry reading nights and join. You’ll get both your literary fix and be surrounded by sexy, smart women. Oh and the coffee and the cookies are free!
Not so much for the yoga pants but I’m sure you’ll get your fix of that too, but joining a yoga class is (1) NOT GAY LIKE ALL YOUR FRIENDS SAY, (2) very healthy for your mind, soul and body, and (3) yes there’s an abundance of girls. And post-yoga aura is always warm and fresh and no girl is ever grumpy after a yoga class. And guess what, yoga is actually good for the heart (literally and figuratively!).
It is such a bonus to find a hobby that you would like, and the girls are just an added inspiration. Look for something you’ve been really dying to learn and start from there. Good luck!
You’ve seen them in films—those women who exude confidence, who have a strong-willed personality, who can pay for their own clothes and bills, and those who love life in general—yes, I’m talking about the independent woman.
The independent woman is coming out of her shell as time goes by, and I can’t help but admire them because of their passion and perseverance. These women aren’t the kind who’d throw a fit when they don’t get their things their way, but instead keep on finding ways to improve their situation and work things out. They are your everyday warriors—be it in the office, at home, or both—and they still manage to make themselves look good while they’re at it.
Some time in May I was able to stumble upon a DTC Water to Wine live event that had Michael D’Amari promoting his book: “Woman Hold the Power”. This guy had a lot of interesting things to say, so I immediately searched YouTube for more of his videos. Here’s one in which D’Amari is explaining why men get intimidated by independent women. I say that it’s making a lot of sense, as seen from a man and a woman’s perspective:
Quite refreshing, isn’t it? But no matter what is being said, it all boils down to this– having an independent woman on your side means your relationship is more likely to grow more every day—and here’s why.
They know what they want. What sets the independent woman from the rest is that they truly know what they want AND know how to get it on their own. In dating, this is always good, because there’s no need for you to decipher what she wants from you. She will most likely tell it to you in a very direct but tactful way, so don’t act surprised if she will give you pointers on how to do it right the next time. Trust me—it’s all for the better.
They won’t give up that easily. Most independent women are successful in their own ways. They have, probably exerted a little more effort in order for them to reach that top position in that reputable company. In short, they are go-getters—they don’t simply back down. This rings true in romance and relationships, too.
They will help you reach your goals. These women are the best motivators. Chances are, they will be attracted to you because you have that same independent vibe they also possess, because as they say—like attracts like. She will help you persevere to reach your goals, those little wants that you’ve wanted to do for the past couple of years now. She’s probably going to help you cross out some items off your bucket list. Win-win.
Times are indeed changing as we become surrounded by beautiful and independent women. Don’t get intimidated, nor see it as a challenge. In fact, dating strong and independent women should be treated as a blessing—there’s no room for boredom, only growth, and more passion.
Hello there, fellow romantics. I have something interesting for you to read today. Why? Because this topic is very universal and very real– it’s all about being broke. Or, to sugarcoat it ever so lightly– this post is all about being “financially challenged”.
Hustling? Not this time.
You know how it is when you’re broke. You also know how women are usually difficult to please especially that their wants and needs are varied according to their lifestyle and personality. However, no matter how varied they can be, there are always common pathways to which a man can follow to conquer a woman’s heart. If you are a guy who is financially challenged and wonder how to meet women and make them like you quickly, then follow these simple tips to help you face the challenge.
1. Not all women are captured by money alone
If you think that the easiest way to please a woman is to show your money, then you are very wrong. Although it can be a big help to have a lot of money, your riches are just tiny dots in a woman’s universe. Women are not blinded by material things. They are more abstract and deep that even they themselves find it difficult to explain. Hence, do not presume to know what women want by giving or buying expensive gifts and showing them that you can give everything for them. That will be a sign for them that you are in control and surely most, if not all, women don’t like to date control freaks.
2. Be creative
Women tend to be more attracted to creative guys—those who can think of better ways of dealing with things. One good example is having a dinner together. If your cash in not enough to allow for a fine dining at an expensive restaurant, then you can opt for a cheap dinner at your own house where you can cook your food and turn your ordinary dining table into a one-of-a-kind romantic restaurant.
3. Be Thoughtful
It’s the thought that counts as they say. There is nothing more thoughtful than calling her in the morning and greeting her to let her know that she is being missed by you. When you are with her, you will always have lots of chances to show her your thoughtfulness. Girls are easily moved by your sense of gratitude and by your way of bringing out the best in her.
4. Always prepare some alternatives
This tip is almost related to the second tip. If you are creative enough, you can easily think of alternatives to any goals that are difficult to achieve. For example, you planned to watch a movie but the schedule was moved. An alternative would be to watch movies at home or play card games and make fun with yourselves. You never know these alternatives can save the day that could have been annoying to her.
5. Flowers and Chocolates don’t have to be Expensive
Girls can’t help but giggle when they receive flowers and chocolates. However, nowadays, these things are already quite expensive and the cheap but attractive ones are very difficult to find. Remember this, most girls already get happy whether you give them a bouquet of flowers or a single stem. Again, it’s the thought that counts. Just show your utmost sincerity.
6. Love Letters Remain Romantic
Romantic love letters are already rare nowadays. The good thing is that women love to receive rare things. Just make sure you have checked your grammar and that words are perfectly put together to sweep every girl off her feet.
Don’t be too hard on yourself. Don’t worry– you’ll be able to keep your relationships alive even if money isn’t flowing towards your direction as much as you want to. Follow these tips and you just might pull it off. Good luck!
Wise Words by Enrique!
5th April 2013 in
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Although it might have been surprising to see a guy and a girl going home together after meeting at a bar or a club back in the day, things are a bit different now. As a matter of fact, people put a lot of effort into dressing up and looking good when they go out nowadays, with the hopes of connecting with someone special.
Even though it may be a bit overwhelming to learn how to get a girl to go home with you, you have to stay calm and collected, no matter what. Aside from that, you have to make sure that you make your move the minute you see a girl that you like because there are very high chances that other guys out there will be vying for her attention, too. Sometimes, you have to know how to be a flirt!
Take her home with you tonight.
Naturally, the first step would be to look for a girl that you want to spend the night with. After that, just approach her and start talking to her. You have to keep in mind that a lot of different things will be going on around you, though, and other guys will try to get her attention off of you, too. This is the biggest reason why you have to learn how to get a girl to go home with you right away, so you can keep her attention on you. Learn the trade– go to a dating seminar if you have to. But for the meantime, read on to find out the most important tips on how to get a girl to go home with you.
Plan the perfect first impression.
Since you only have one chance to actually make a good first impression on a girl, you have to make sure you plan out your opening before you approach her to begin with. Again, you will have to remember that there is a ton of competition out there, so you have to come up with the perfect opening when it comes to this. Aside from that, you also have to make sure that you stay calm and collected; otherwise, the girl will notice your nervousness and get turned off right away.
Learn effective methods of hypnosis.
Not a lot of guys have the balls to try out methods of hypnosis, but if you want to learn how to get a girl to go home with you, then these methods would be highly effective in that department. In fact, hypnosis is so powerful that you will be able to make any girl of your choice fall for you in under 15 minutes – believe it.
Gauge the girl’s feelings.
Since girls generally visit clubs or bars to relax, you have to figure out what your target’s feelings are like before you approach her. This will ensure that she feels like you’re on the same wavelength. Ideally, you should also socialize with other people, dance and get her to notice you all night long, in general. This way, your personality will shine and you will definitely be able to get a girl to go home with you in no time.
So a couple of days ago, I went to this dating seminar which I’ve told you about previously here on my blog. It was a sight to see—it’s amazing how a lot of people are as interested in relationships, the art of seduction, and dating itself as much as I am.
It seems like I have a lot to learn still, and the article that I’ve written exactly a week ago is never enough to cover the entire topic of seduction. There are simply a lot of things and factors that will make a woman like you, so it seems—all of which are impossible to cover in a 500-word article. But it’s all a learning process, as they say. It will take baby steps to reach that certain kind of achievement that will always be fulfilling in the end. If there’s one thing that the seminar has made me realise, it would be the thought of sharing goals and dreams with a person you love will always be priceless. It makes the chase always worth it.
Well, I promise to keep you updated and I would stay in touch for as often as I could, so I could share with you all the things that I’ve learned during the New York seminar. The next entries should be exciting—stay tuned and til next time!
22nd March 2013 in
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I am going to attend a dating seminar held here in New York! Relationships always intrigue me, and this is a good opportunity to see what is out there when it comes to dating coaching. Now if you are in New York City, and you’re also into self improvement, dating and seduction coaching then give me a shout at firstname.lastname@example.org. See you!
18th March 2013 in
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